I know fear. We've been like this {visualize me holding up 2 fingers twisted together} for a long while now. Yep, we're old... hmmm, I'm not sure what the word is - not friends... Acquaintances? Inseparable enemies? I don't know, but one thing I do: it hasn't been a stellar association & it isn't a relationship from above.
God did not give us a spirit of fear {that's straight from 1 Timothy 1:7}. Then, why can't I shake this? How did this happen? Let's look at what fear does first.
Fear causes us to make hasty, unwise decisions & it can paralyze us from taking the bold, risky steps God is calling us to. It whispers every founded & unfounded "what-if." It knows how to trigger our deepest dread &, if given the space & time, it will completely plunge our hope into utter darkness.
But if God did not give us a spirit of fear, who did? That may be the easiest answer of the day: the enemy of our souls, Satan. How do we combat fear? That answer is a little more difficult. What's the hardest part? Putting it into practice when fear has become the default mode of a weary heart.
In all honesty, fear & I haven't always been so close. Sometimes, when fear has come knocking, I've kicked him to the curb like a super-ninja with mad street skills. But, after awhile I stopped going to my ninja training class {yep, I never got my diploma... sad}. Anywho {& back to reality}, after multiple attacks from fear, its whispered lies {because who knows lies like he whose native tongue is lying (John 8:44)} started to sound like rock-solid truths. Weakness won out, & taking my eyes off Jesus I began to focus on the anxiety that burdened my very bones. Fear is a thief that wants to rob us ultimately of our very life.
So, what's the plan? How do we fight? Fear is such a multi-faceted, personal, evil-transformer kinda thing in its victim's lives that there's not a single ninja training video that can be presented. Yep, that's messy real-world for ya.
Here's some starting places, however...
- Replace the lies with God's Truth! Read His Word. {Click here for some of my favorite scriptures on dealing with fear.}
- Let it out. Talk with trusted, faithful family & friends. Ask them to pray for you concerning this. Christian counselors are also a godly resource & help.
- Find something that takes your mind off fear, & back on Jesus. Sing worship songs, hang out with godly friends, or volunteer to help those who need it. Fear doesn't thrive in such places.
- Pray. Pray. And pray some more. It's true that God already knows what we need & what we are going to say, but He wants to hear it from us & it blesses us to speak to Him & expectantly await His loving reply.
This won't be an overnight change, it will be a journey. Some days I battle hard & win, others I don't. But through Jesus we can do all things {Philippians 4:13}! Take that leap, & leave fear behind you, a fuller life through Christ's strength lies just beyond that anxious place you've been calling home.
Love & Fearlessness,
-Bess-
-Bess-
P.S.: Truth: I wrote this for my own fearful heart. I pray it blesses yours, too.
Help us, Lord, to take a fearless leap knowing You will catch us. In Jesus' Name, Amen.
Another beautiful post Bess. I know that fearful heart well too. Fear is annoying agent of the enemy but in our victor we trust.
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful, honest post! I love that you shared this! So much truth in these words! The words of Bethel's song you posted "I am no longer a slave to fear, I am a child of God" is in my head as I read it.
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